preferences < people, a love formula ✷

on wanting connection while avoiding conflict and compromise

Feb 19 • Katie Dalebout

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December 2025

is eating embarrassing now?

using food to avoid feeling cost me time, sanity, and worst of all: relationships.

Dec 31, 2025 • Katie Dalebout

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15

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November 2025

bless me, Father, for i have scrolled

an unholy reflection on envy, comparison, and speed

Nov 18, 2025 • Katie Dalebout

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July 2025

kill 'em with kindness or?

mean is cool now? am I 'good with people still?' what happens when I confront my fear of confrontation...

Jul 29, 2025 • Katie Dalebout

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summer break programming 2.0 🌀

2nd annual recs list 🏄‍♂️ chronology is a construct.

Jul 13, 2025 • Katie Dalebout

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April 2025

the come up is quiet

on discipline and the space between “no longer and not yet”

Apr 17, 2025 • Katie Dalebout

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March 2025

show up empty handed? never!

so here's the deal with all the cakes...

Mar 15, 2025 • Katie Dalebout

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8

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February 2025

feeling feelings > thinking feelings

extremes of detachment and overwhelm

Feb 27, 2025 • Katie Dalebout

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ultimate breakups survival guide. 💔

a tale as old as time.

Feb 16, 2025 • Katie Dalebout

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how to stop wanting curtains

an L.A. Story

Feb 6, 2025 • Katie Dalebout

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4

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December 2024

this last list is light...

quotes and facts I like

Dec 31, 2024 • Katie Dalebout

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WHAT DO YOU WANT?

thoughts on desire

Dec 12, 2024 • Katie Dalebout

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