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For The International Women's Day Betray the Bro Code
Telling on your shitty friends to save women's lives
Mar 8 • Jowita Bydlowska
The wolf moves
An excerpt from work-in-progress
Mar 3 • Jowita Bydlowska
We Watched a Rape on Reality TV and Called It “Cheating”
When the story is named incorrectly
Feb 22 • Jowita Bydlowska
A short & brutal trip through the timeline of being a chick
The shame of being a woman
Feb 19 • Jowita Bydlowska
The Rejection Olympics
On failure, stamina, and why writers need winter training
Feb 18 • Jowita Bydlowska
Girl, violated: Filed as weather
Men, power, and the damage we can’t quite measure.
Feb 14 • Jowita Bydlowska
Drunk Mom
An excerpt from my first memoir
Feb 13 • Jowita Bydlowska
Checking the box: Identity fraud on a small scale and doing the right thing
On who benefits, who loses, and why silence is not neutral
Feb 12 • Jowita Bydlowska
It's your fault that you cry
The shame of staying in shitty situations
Feb 9 • Jowita Bydlowska
Famous, Sick, and Sorry
Kanye West and why celebrity apologies are good for all of us.
Jan 28 • Jowita Bydlowska
What was never wrong
Syndactyly, projection, and the collapse of unearned shame
Jan 21 • Jowita Bydlowska
How comfortable are you on this timeline?
The shame that asks us to stay awake and resist the seduction of ignoring or normalizing what should never become normal.
Jan 14 • Jowita Bydlowska
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Dealing with shame one post at a time.
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