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the death of whimsy
Watch now | how productivity culture made adulthood painfully serious
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outcomes of crowd-sourcing every decision
asking for input has become so reflexive that most decisions can’t be made anymore without polling at least three people about what they think the right…
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self-preservation as a skill for the chronically responsible
being the person who remembers everything creates an exhaustion that’s hard to explain to people who’ve never carried that role.
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12 ways to spend time alone and actually enjoy your own company
Solitude has acquired a strange reputation.
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integrate your dream life into your real week (without quitting your job)
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loneliness of self-improvement
in this video, i talk about the ache of self-improvement.
Feb 28
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15 ways to practice self-love
self-love has been marketed into something glossy and oddly exhausting, a posture to maintain rather than a relationship to build, which is partly why…
Feb 28
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the first milk & cookies live
i’m hosting the first milk & cookies live, and i wanted to properly invite you.
Feb 27
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why you shouldn’t share good news with your low effort family
sharing something that matters and receiving a response that feels interchangeable with a thumbs-up emoji creates its own kind of disappointment in the…
Feb 27
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creative prompts for problems that refuse to be explained
most advice collapses the moment it’s needed most.
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