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Almost Day — The Person I Became When Part of Me Died
Jul 23, 2025
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The House That Held Me While I Broke
Oct 17, 2025
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When the Universe Calls Your Bluff: A Story of Water, Flu, and Building Anyway
May 20, 2025
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Eight Unconventional Questions for Year End Reflection
Dec 27, 2024
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Ambition Without Hunger
A case for contentment that doesn’t kill your drive.
Mar 3
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You Were Never a Rough Draft
A leaf. A shiver. A reminder: you don’t have to earn aliveness.
Feb 25
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The Anchor Pack
INTERNAL MEMORANDUM
Feb 18
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Before You Make It Mean Something
What grief, strangers, and saved essays reminded me: don’t perform the lesson, touch what’s true.
Feb 15
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Alexander Lovell, PhD
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A Coke, a Cape, and a Breath I Didn’t Earn
A barber, a Coke, and one hour where I refused the “just get through it” script, and let myself be held anyway.
Feb 10
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Let It Be Smaller Than You Want
No redemption arc. Just the handrails that make this week bearable.
Feb 8
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The Cost of a Good Yes
Not burnout. Not boundaries. Just the grief of what quietly slips away.
Feb 3
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Alexander Lovell, PhD
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Apparently it’s February.
February’s theme: kind firmness. Permission included.
Feb 2
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Living Room Invitation - February 2026
For our Paid Members
Feb 1
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