Modern Virtue with Dr. Selda Koydemir

Modern Virtue with Dr. Selda Koydemir

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Searching for Our Dead is Part of Grief
Seeing and feeling the loved ones we lost doesn’t necessarily mean there is something wrong with us.
 • Selda Koydemir
A Case for Imperfect Parenting
Parenting leaves marks, so does temperament (along with many other factors).
 • Selda Koydemir
Why Rebound Relationships Deserve Kindness
The myths and realities of rebounds
 • Selda Koydemir
The Relational Loops That Keep Us Stuck
How well-meaning support from others can hold problems in place—and even worsen them
 • Selda Koydemir
What Nagging Your Partner Really Says
It’s not about the wet towel.
 • Selda Koydemir
Singlehood, Gender, and the Stories We Tell
How gender shapes the way we see—and live—singlehood
 • Selda Koydemir
Why That Viral Explanation Isn’t the Full Story
On the beauty—and danger—of neat psychological narratives.
 • Selda Koydemir
To Change Is to Stay First
What clinical practice and research reveal about the paradox of psychological change
 • Selda Koydemir
The Danger of Tolerable Things
The science of why we fix the big things and ignore the small (+ how I deal with daily hassles)
 • Selda Koydemir
Modern Virtue with Dr. Selda Koydemir
Modern Virtue with Dr. Selda Koydemir
Deep dives into emotional wellbeing, relationships, and mental health, challenging popular psychology myths. I blend research with my work as a therapist to provide insights into life.
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