Dating Redefined is a question-driven framework designed to help thoughtful women stop overthinking,
Modern dating isn’t working for most people.
According to Pew Research, two-thirds of singles who are looking for a relationship say their dating life is going
“not too well” or “not well at all.”
Does this sound like you?
You feel like you “suck at dating.”
In other words, you feel your love life is filled with overwhelm, confusion, a cycle of bad dates/relationships, frustration, overthinking, feeling scammed, a lack of self-trust... - or even just outright boredom.
You don’t fully trust yourself when it comes to understanding what you want or choosing the right partners.
You find yourself in confusing dating or relationship dynamics and aren’t sure how to navigate them with clarity and confidence.
You often feel lost in your love life and want to make more authentic, aligned choices every step of the way.
If you answered yes ...
I want to support you, step-by-step:
clarify your real needs, boundaries, and standards
understand past relationship patterns without blaming yourself
overcome overthinking, fear, and dating confusion
build the self-trust to make better relationship choices with ease
create space for fulfilling love that aligns with your true values & worth
Dating Redefined
Let’s get specific: Here’s what you can gain from this program:
- Reshape your mindset around dating and relationships
- Break unhelpful patterns like perfectionism and people-pleasing
- Date with more clarity, emotional control, and confidence
- Gain the skills and tools you need to be emotionally resilient for long-term relationships
- Make honest, empowered decisions in love
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Heartfelt Praise
Imani is engaging, knowledgeable, and moves through a ton of super practical frameworks that help us overthinkers divorce ourselves from the self destructive practices of modern dating, in favor of true alignment. Couldn’t recommend more!
Melissa B.
Washington D.C., U.S.A.
I am so grateful to have found Dating Redefined and Imani from Same New Love. I cannot recommend this course and content enough! Not only does it focus on romantic relationships but most importantly the relationship you have with yourself which was a huge high opener to me. The delivery of the content and material is practical, digestible and SO relatable.
Hannah B
Calgary, Canada
This course has been a game-changer for me. I wanted to change my dating habits for healthier connections with people, and it has completely opened my eyes. The best part is the real-life stuff you can actually use. I really like how things are explained in bitesized steps and the practical advice is making a real difference for me. I've really enjoyed this program, it's not just about dating; it's turning things around for me personally and in all my relationships. I've got a clearer focus of what I want and how to get it and I can't wait to see where this journey takes me.
Emma R
London, U.K.
Love this course! It helped me redefine my beliefs about relationships and myself. Imani's perspective is unique and spoke to me. I would recommend it to anyone who's been struggling in the romantic arena of life! It will be worth your while!
Jennifer S.
New York City, U.S.A.
Where was this course years ago?! I consider myself an over thinker due to people pleasing, and it wasn’t before taking this course that I could fully identify what to do about that in my relationship. Imani is thorough yet very easy to follow. I was pleasantly surprised by how practical everything was as she broke it down. I was able to unlock things about myself that I had never realized were prohibiting me from strengthening my relationship. I wasn’t sure if this was for me because it caters to people who are seeking a relationship, but it’s helped me maneuver challenges I’ve been run into with my partner.
Stella U.
Cincinnati, USA
There’s no safer place to dive into relationships than with Imani. She has spent so much time working on herself, reflecting, coaching others, and developing these frameworks that she’s a clear and true expert in the field. The course is the perfect balance of patience and slightly tough love - always with growth in mind. The course helped me realize many unconscious biases and redevelop some old and stale thought patterns for success, and I feel so much more aligned with my true self and ready for what’s to come. Highly recommend!
Kimberly C
Los Angeles, United States
As someone in a committed relationship I thought this course really helped me identify ways I can grow and be a better partner to my fiancé. Not just helpful for improving your relationship skills but also helps you grow as an individual. Highly recommend!!
Elizabeth H
Washington D.C., USA
Meet me:
Imani Ifedi
my philosophy
My mission is to help people make honest, aligned, and conscious choices to create more self-trusting, self-confident love lives.
And I believe that true love starts with true choice; true choice starts with true honesty; and true honesty starts with rewriting the scripts and rules you’ve been given – and then creating your own.
To help people do this in their unique dating and relationship journeys, I unite logic with love, integrating principles from my educational background (Philosophy, Ethics, Policy), REBT-based strategies, mindfulness practices, and pivotal lessons from my own dating experiences and current married life.
Ultimately, I believe that you have the answers within you. I’m just here to help you uncover them.
Inside the Program:
[▶] Welcome
Step into a journey of introspection, evaluation, and transformation that’ll enable you to improve your love life and beyond.
[▶] Get Ready, Get Set…
The main things you need to do before getting started with the Dating Redefined Program.
[▶] Setting the Mind, Body, & Soul
Setting your mind, body, and soul up for dating success with three key research-based practices.
[▶] The Bigger Picture
How you CAN find an ideal partner while being your total and utterly true self – flaws and all.
[▶] Confidence Setting – Why You’re Awesome
Confidence is a key “trait” when it comes to dating – and one that everyone seems to struggle with at times. Here’s what confidence is (and what it isn’t), along with an exercise to boost it in a matter of minutes.
[▶] Understanding Your Personal Dating Framework
What this “PDF” is all about, and how you can use it as a beneficial guideline for navigating modern dating.
[▶] Drafting Your Core Values & Principles
Uncovering the practical significance of values and principles in dating decision-making.
[▶] The 4 P’s and Core Standards
Standards is a word that is thrown around a lot in the dating world, but what do standards entail, and how do perfectionism, people-pleasing, and pessimism shape what we consider our standards?
[▶] The Relationship Between Habits, Fear, & Beliefs
Habits, beliefs, and fears are three common terms when it comes to self-help and self-improvement, but what do they have to do with each other? And what do they have to do with dating and relationships?
[▶] The 4 Re’s of Reshaping Your Beliefs: Habit Reversal Chart
Reshape unhelpful dating habits by reshaping your beliefs. You’ll learn how to reflect, reassess, revise, and then decide how you’ll re-act in the future differently with your new, desired belief through my transformative “Habit Reversal Chart” process.
[▶] New Habits and Beliefs List
Summary and side-by-side view of new habits and beliefs.
[▶] Non-Habit Beliefs Need Love, Too
Learn about and start identifying non-habit “prescriptive” and “perspective” beliefs, which can be deeply ingrained and may keep you from embracing the authentic dating experiences you desire.
[▶] Using “Why” to Your Advantage for Non-Habit Beliefs
How to analyze your non-habit prescriptive and perspective beliefs with your overthinking “superpower.”
[▶] Head-Heart-Gut Alignment
Re-align with your vision and understand decision-making at an all-encompassing level through the power of “head, heart, gut alignment” – a concept you can use at any stage of your love life.
[▶] It’s Time to Re-Align
How to use head-heart-gut alignment to re-align with your vision – and extract anything in your vision that isn’t authentically yours.
[▶] Self-Eval – Because You’re Perfectly Imperfect…
This lesson is all about self-evaluation, which will help ensure you are where you want to be before continuing your dating journey.
[▶] Affirm Your Transformation
Using the power of positive affirmations to solidify your lessons, shifts, and transformations.
[▶] Dating Mind-Body-Spirit Tools for Overthinking
Uncover key tools and strategies for overthinkers – going beyond meditation, journaling, and strategic breathing – and start building your own authentic toolkit.
[▶] Type-Specific Tools for the 4 P’s
Equip yourself with a few more toolbox strategies and techniques that specifically address your “personality” type.
[▶] Daily Reading – Bringing it All Together
Create a personal Daily Reading to help pull all the facets of your PDF into one concise, accessible reminder each day, thus setting a positive tone for your dating and relationship journey.
[▶] Dating is as Easy as ABCDE
Learn about a simple guide that can help you remember how to truly “be yourself” when the nerves start kicking in – a guide that’s as easy as ABCDE.
[▶] Confirming and Claiming Your PDF
[▶] Thank You!
Dating Redefined
Rewrite your love life — starting with how you think about dating.
Online Course
- 2.5 hours of on-demand video
- 5 transformational modules (21 lessons)
- worksheets, prompts, and practical tools to make the change stick
- lifetime access