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Am I Expecting Too Much from My Husband?

PJ can't be everything to me all the time, so what happens when I want him to be?

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A Few Fun Things

Including a sneak peek of the new paint color for our primary bathroom, our big embarrassment, and two reader comments

Mar 6 • PJ and Thomas

The One Thing We Do That Changed Our Sex Life

Would you do this with your partner?

Feb 25 • PJ and Thomas

A Few Fun Things

Including a dream home tour, the sexiest man right now, and my favorite show, plus 3 reader comments

Feb 20 • PJ and Thomas

Does Size Really Matter?

In a world that tells us bigger is always better, how big is big enough? Here's my take on it.

Feb 18 • PJ and Thomas

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How Receiving a Jock Strap in the Mail Spiced Things Up in the Bedroom

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How We Keep the Spark Alive in Our Marriage

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