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do i even want love?

deconstructing my desire for love
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maybe love isn’t about finding one person
the messy, beautiful work of choosing connection over convention
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sympathy is a knife
I’m stuck in this loop where I want comfort, but I expect disappointment, so I don’t let anyone in.
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the older you get, the more your parents find God
Something I’ve noticed lately is that the older you get, the more your parents become religious.
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womanhood isn’t about suffering
We have romanticized suffering as women.
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bring back cringe tumblr poetry
I really miss the days of scrolling on Tumblr and reading the most gut-wrenching, breath-catching-in-your-throat, probably terrible poetry with The…
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girls with a weird relationship with sex
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i don't see men as human
A man I loved once told me he didn’t think I saw men as humans.
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sydcarmy & swirler delusion
scroll to the bottom for the august edition of the culture edit
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we're in a sexual recession
No one’s having sex anymore.
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on desire, culture, and everything you were taught to want.
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