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Midlife can be challenging for multiple reasons, so if you're feeling lost or trapped or unhappy, you're not broken and you're far from alone. You're just human.
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LATEST PODCAST EPISODE
Men Communicate Through Behaviour Not Words
Many men struggle to understand, express, or even recognise what they are feeling. They often communicate distress through behaviour, and sometimes in ways that are self-destructive. Excessive drinking, withdrawing from friendships, over-investing time in work or reckless risk-taking can act as signals that something is wrong internally.
Features
The Drift: Why So Many Men Feel Lost Without Knowing Why
There’s a version of this you’ll probably recognise: Everything looks fine, the bills are paid, the responsibilities are met. From any reasonable outside perspective your life is working. You have things that other people want. You’ve built something. And yet… […]
Read More >>>Stop Chasing the Next Thing. Start Living This One
A very specific busyness creeps in during midlife. Not the chaotic, early-career scramble where everything feels new. Not the wide-eyed ambition of your twenties. This is different. It’s fuller. Heavier. More complex. You’re carrying responsibility now – work, family, finances, […]
Read More >>>The Moment Men Realise They Don’t Have to Pretend Anymore
There is a particular kind of tiredness that many men carry through midlife. It is not just physical fatigue, and it is not solved by a good night’s sleep or […]
Read More >>>Men Don’t Just Want Sex: The Emotional Truth We Don’t Talk About
There’s a story most of us have absorbed without ever consciously agreeing to it. Men want sex. Women want connection. End of discussion. It’s neat. It’s convenient. And it’s largely […]
Read More >>>The Upwards Happiness Curve Nobody Tells You About
We grow up assuming life satisfaction should climb steadily with age. Work hard, build a career, find love, raise a family, earn more money…and happiness will follow. But real life […]
Read More >>>If Midlife Feels Empty, You’re Asking the Wrong Questions
Something quietly shifts as you move through midlife. It’s not dramatic, and it doesn’t arrive with a trumpet fanfare. It’s more like waking up one morning and realising you’re less […]
Read More >>>News & Insights
LiveMore Lowers Minimum Mortgage Age from 50 to 40
A growing number of people in their 40s are struggling with mortgage debt and long-term […]
Read More >>>Middle Age Memory Loss May Be Impacted by Sweeteners
Regular consumption of artificial sweeteners may be linked to an increased risk of cognitive decline […]
Read More >>>ADHD as an Explanation for Brain Slowing
ADHD is often seen as a childhood condition, but growing evidence suggests it does not […]
Read More >>>7 Personality Changes in Midlife That Can Warn of Dementia
Subtle changes in personality during midlife may be an early signal of increased dementia risk […]
Read More >>>7 Hours Sleep Optimal For Brain Health in Middle Age
Research suggests that for adults in middle age and beyond, about seven hours of sleep […]
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Book of the Month
THE SECRET LIVES OF MEN
by JAMES HAWES
The Secret Lives of Men is a compelling read for midlife men who feel they’re carrying more than they ever admit. Drawing on psychotherapy and lived experience, Hawes explores the private fears, pressures, and contradictions many men hide behind competence and control. Read More >>>
Popular Middle Man Episodes
The Cost of People Pleasing
with Daniel Glyde
Many midlife men have a problem with saying 'yes'. In that they do it all the time out of habit, regardless of what's best for them.
How You Can Live a Soft Life
with Dr Sarah Nicholls
Living a 'soft life' is all about living in a way that reduces stress and priorities mental wellbeing, ease and personal fulfilment.
Add 10 Years to Your Life!
with Dr Federica Amati
Most content about what we should eat and how we should eat it is confusing. This is a down to earth way of being healthier and fitter.
Midlife Stories: Overcoming Self Doubt
with Simon Burgess
Self doubt and lack of confidence plague many midlife men, contributing to loneliness and poor mental wellbeing.
SPEAKING
If you run a conference or a corporate wellbeing initiative, I provide presentations that are both moving and inspiring. I have been speaking publicly 20 years, and my Middle Man presentations draw upon three core elements. The first is the lived experience of the 100+ men who have contacted me with their own experiences since I launched the show. The second is the collated wellbeing wisdom of all of the guests who have appeared on the show. And the third is my very personal story of my own midlife challenges, about which I talk openly and honestly. Find out more...
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