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Welcome to How to Build a Life
this is everything you need to know
Jun 8, 2025
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Laura Jane Williams
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This is what my dating profiles look like as a 39-year old single mother
be gentle with me!
Jan 12
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Starting the new year single
it was a pre-festive break-up, babes, and for the best
Jan 5
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Why I've Been Ashamed of Myself for Five Years
Aug 2, 2024
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My First Novel Sold for €160,000
Aug 22, 2024
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I'm Terrified of the Impending Winter
Oct 10, 2024
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I First Met My Son In a Park
Sep 19, 2024
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How a single mum working 50+ hours a week manages her time
May 8, 2025
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I've lost 5 stone - 70 pounds - on weight loss injections
Apr 3, 2025
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#17 December: making memories that sparkle
Fake Christmas + genuine joy + a festive break-up
Dec 31, 2025
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Everything that is working right now
part two, in case it helps
Dec 8, 2025
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#16 November endings spark December dreams
knee replacements, the relentlessness of parenting + some photos
Dec 1, 2025
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It would have been one thing to smell of damp, but quite another to be wrinkled too
a story of tarot and chakra cleansing
Nov 24, 2025
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I think I might be more myself than ever
I'm taking off the armor
Nov 17, 2025
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I called the doctor’s surgery today
and then hung up and had a bit of a cry
Nov 10, 2025
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Falling in love has been 10/10 awful
how does anybody stand it
Nov 3, 2025
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#15 I'm so glad I live in a world where there are Octobers
parents, we did it! + kitchen discoes + bringing the outdoors in
Oct 27, 2025
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we don't find ourselves, we build ourselves
a how to build a life manifesto
Oct 20, 2025
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I achieved that, I did that, and I felt trapped
another diary entry i suppose
Oct 13, 2025
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My mother essentially staged an intervention yesterday
waving from the messy middle
Oct 6, 2025
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#14 September: I would send you a bouquet of newly sharpened pencils if I knew your name and address
How to Build a Life (THE BOOK) + big feelings + trumpets
Sep 29, 2025
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"It can be profound to think you can move just one person with your work"
...continuing my series on how other people do life, with JP Watson
Sep 25, 2025
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