Use C99-designated initializer syntax for more arrays

Use C99-designated initializer syntax for more arrays

This is in the same spirit as ef5e2e90859a, updating this time some
arrays in parser.c, relpath.c, guc_tables.c and pg_dump_sort.c so as the
order of their elements has no need to match the enum structures they
are based on anymore.

Author: Jelte Fennema-Nio
Reviewed-by: Jian He, Japin Li
Discussion: https://postgr.es/m/CAGECzQT3caUbcCcszNewCCmMbCuyP7XNAm60J3ybd6PN5kH2Dw@mail.gmail.com