Consistently use read-only instead of "read only"

Consistently use read-only instead of "read only"

This affects one message and some documentation that used the format
"read only", unlike everything else that used read-only.

Backpatch-through: 14
Discussion: https://postgr.es/m/CABUevExuxKwn0YM3+wdSeQSvK6CRrJ-hewocGVX3R4-xVX4eMw@mail.gmail.com