Disable all TLS session tickets

Disable all TLS session tickets

OpenSSL supports two types of session tickets for TLSv1.3, stateless
and stateful. The option we've used only turns off stateless tickets
leaving stateful tickets active. Use the new API introduced in 1.1.1
to disable all types of tickets.

Backpatch to all supported versions.

Reviewed-by: Heikki Linnakangas <hlinnaka@iki.fi>
Reported-by: Andres Freund <andres@anarazel.de>
Discussion: https://postgr.es/m/20240617173803.6alnafnxpiqvlh3g@awork3.anarazel.de
Backpatch-through: v12